The children of today are the adults of tomorrow. A divorce is not their fault. Do not make them feel or carry the burden that it is. You are parents for life. Make that count.
'Remember to ask yourself some really important questions: Do I love my kids more than I dislike my ex? What will my kids say about how I handled post-divorce parenting when they're grown adults? This will keep you on target in putting their emotional and psychological needs first when making any parenting decisions following the divorce.'