Examples of coercive control can include:
It may be that your client is no longer allowed to make their own decisions, are stopped from seeing their friends, and their movements are closely monitored. Increasingly the victim will become accepting of the behaviour and feel trapped in the situation they are in. The perpetrator may take control of the finances, accuse the victim of lying, cheating and control or bully the victim into submission.
Coercive abuse differs from domestic violence in that there is no physical evidence, making it difficult to asses or notice. It is important therefore, to be vigilant in spotting the signs of coercive abuse when seeing clients interact together. For example, between an elderly client and their younger counterparts (be it son or daughter or grandchildren), if a third party states “this is what mum wants” or words to that effect, make sure that “mum” is consulted on her own and these instructions come from her.
When a family lawyer is already dealing with someone who has been the victim of coercive control, can the private client lawyer help?
Yes - firstly, it is important to ensure that the victim has a will in place as to not allow the perpetrator to inherit under the rules of intestacy. Intestacy is the condition of the estate of a person who dies without having made a valid will or other binding declaration.
Where the victim is married, then the spouse will almost always be the main beneficiary under a will or stand to inherit under intestacy. Consequently, a suitable will should be created to protect the victim’s wishes, whether or not this is an interim measure until a divorce is finalised. It is vital that issues relating to ownership of property are included at this time to ensure that the victim’s share of any jointly owned property are preserved. A simple severance of joint tenancies will enable the victim to ensure that those assets pass to the ‘right’ people and that it is not left to chance.
Aside from wills, the private client lawyer can assist in the production of Lasting Powers of Attorney (LPAs), for both property and finance and health and welfare. An LPA may not be needed immediately but are important in ensuring the victim has control of their property and finances in the case of incapacity. A property and finance LPA allows the victim to choose a trusted person to make decisions about how to spend their money and the way their property and affairs are managed.
The health and welfare LPA allows the victim to appoint a person to look after their personal welfare and healthcare. It allows the attorney(s) to make decisions regarding their welfare and health care if you have lost mental capacity. It would allow them to decide on living, the type of healthcare and medical treatment received, including life sustaining treatment.
Although family lawyers are aware of the steps that they can take, through the courts, or with police involvement to protect their clients, it is important to consider referring matters to their private client colleagues, to ensure every form of protection is put in place.